How far are you from these other people? We just give them an opportunity at life. I fought long and hard to achieve it and overcame many obstacles. I often feel like if I died, only a couple of people would even notice or care about my absence if it weren’t announced. I have never met anyone else. My husband left me with nothing for greener pastures i asked for nothing, even though he took half of what I had when he had thousands worth of equipment. Our family is so dysfunctional it is sad. Booze. I feel so insane lately. Take care of everyone. I feel like I have no purpose in life. At first everything was going fine. So now I have to deal with my mom being always mad at my dad and complaining about him. I don’t know how but I really truly deeply cannot wait for this. It is so hard to let them make their own choices. He wants you to blossom into who He created you to be…but you have to participate. At this moment i feel like giving up on everything and everyone. Your email address will not be published. Don’t suppress your feelings. She would much rather deal with her sister’s death the old-fashioned way. I know that this will please me immensely and I think I will then feel less lonely, Growing up my childhood was a bit shaky!! Even my family does that! I am just barely existing! It will take time to gather support for yourself, but it's well worth the effort. Our relationship was good why mess it up with a piece of paper. I live very near my two sons and my parents and yet I feel so alone my son’s don’t care for me they don’t like me my only friend is my mother & I fear when she is gone how will I go on I feel so sad all the time like I could go missing and no one would even worry I feel like people don’t like me I don’t make friends easily that is a hard thing to live with my life is loneliness everyday. Roger. He hangs a piece of meat in front of me then pulls it away without notice. Children don’t have much power but you are an adult now and can make your own decisions. Find your self a reason. It’s the difficult paths that make a person stronger. I don’t know if you will ever read this. I’m a single mom of grown children. 25. That’s what I pray for today ♥️♥️♥️. I fall into the trap of self-loathing. Going offline — getting off the internet! Hope for what? You know what helps me? Mark mentioned one of the most important things to remember when you’re struggling with feelings of loneliness, abandonment, and even self-hatred: You won’t always feel this way. I keep praying my Wife will change her mind, & stop all of this nonsense! It’s so hard for me to open up and let people know I need attention or their support as it is, so when I finally do get up the nerve to, I often feel disappointed, unfortunately. It’s great that you enjoyed 6 lovely days in Hollywood My Christmas break is in Bruges, Belgium. He was never on my side. Personality wise no one would ever think I lived the life I have. now I’m completely alone and any friends I had hated her and now won’t talk to me. I recently ended a 3 year long relationship with a good hearted woman, who also struggled with similar issues of her own. I am now doing little things to bring a smile to my face. Some of us hide and bury our feelings because of embarrassment or shame. Just want to add that today did something that filled my heart with joy I booked a two day Christmas break. Anastasia, It is true, no one cares! I hear you, I hear how alone and unwanted you feel. */, “I’ve never felt more alone than I do now,” says Mark on How to Cope When You Want Your Old Life Back. 4. The good news about feeling lost, unwanted and alone is that you are in touch with your true self. There’s a recent song I came across that is taken from scripture. I think it is only natural to feel as low as you probably do, given your current environment and the worry you face each day. It’s Mother’s Day in the UK today and I feel incredibly grateful that I got to spend it with my mum. I don’t sit in my pain and loneliness for long – just a few minutes. It just feels that no one has time for me, it’s like I just exist. I understand this pain. My parents are gone and because my siblings/extended family drove my Mother to starve herself to death to escape their abuse so they are dead to me (it’s the Italian blood in me). We all live for a brief moment, then die, and what’s the point? I am only 12, I have felt like this for 5 years now and I don’t want to feel this way anymore but I can’t stop. Everyone knows everyone and i guess i’m stuck with them till i graduate high school. December I will be 48. The same mother who had abused me, allowed my father and siblings to abuse me, I still fought for her rights when it was she being abused regardless, for that is what God wanted of me. When everyone else is smiling in Instagram photos together, you’re the one who isn’t in the picture — because you’re holding the camera or sitting at home scrolling through the photos. I’ve never had a real relationship. This lady watched her every morning; Maria’s presence was a highlight of this little old lady’s day – and Maria had no idea! I love this site. My mother had other children whom the two sisters are very close. It’s a foolish thought, I know! My husband told me on our first date, was that it was my frank honesty that made him fall in love with me. I have no words to describe. I had little black boots that just about reached my knees! But i sure can move forward. What helped me survive was reading Ecclesiastes in the Bible, which I always thought was weird. The thing that was weird was I felt it but I couldn’t let it out. So sad this holiday season. Hi. WE ALL HAVE A PURPOSE in our life periods. I haven to say that this is such a superficial understanding of feeling alone. Put yourself in control of your life. On the other side of the pain, is something good. You’ ll see. Vancouver is beautiful, but it’s crowded, expensive and busy. I’ve cried multiple times a day. Weirdest feeling ever. I’m in the same boat – family are jerks, dumped by the love of my life, Had to quit a job with benefits because it was horrible, all my friends are smug marrieds (see Bridget Jones Diary). When I met Danny I had my own yard service, was recently divorced as was he. It was the driving force behind my Quest to find God-Love manifested in the physical realm He created, beyond just human goodness, kindness of strangers and social or family interactions or even romantic ones. That was the last time I heard from him. Thank you for this post. I’m so glad I read this today. Loneliness is indeed a horrible thing and I AM trying to get to happier place in my life…hopefully soon as I have felt this way for quite some time now and it’s exhausting…not to mention very bad for your health! My mum thought it was a ludicrous idea, that he should travel to collect her and then visit her God daughter when he lives two hour drive away. I’m an addict, with no faith…that doesn’t matter…but I hope that things get better for you. You could try asking her in a gentle way if there’s anything she wants to talk about. Years of prayer and optimism have yielded no real relief. Ican feel loneliness increasing You can decide if those are deal breakers or not. The only way to really feel like somebody cares about you – to feel loved and valuable and cherished – is to accept that love from the God who created you. Blessings and peace! And it has! I do not need them. At least not for such a large stretch of time. I am the one in my class who mostly gets humiliated by two guys in my class. Remind us to turn to You when we feel like nobody cares…and show us that Your presence is all we really need. Every SINGLE TIME I need help from any of them, every single one of them bails out on me, with the most bs of excuses. I am paying everything with CC’s, a divorce Atty. He loves you deeply, and He wants you to be filled with peace, love, joy, and freedom. Maybe you’re depressed because of a breakup, for example, your heart will start to heal and you will rebuild your life. I’m 47 married with 3 kids 19, 17, 16 but yet I feel so alone. You matter , thanks for this! When you’re in a state of sorrow it’s very easy to feel no one cares because people do stay clear of that negativity and most are unwilling to listen. My lawyer said if I did they would push for attempted murder.I confused as nothing happened by we argued because I caught him on the phone with her and i left the room to go to bed. Hope you understand. Ironically, it’s when you feel like no one cares that you’re most likely to bottle your feelings up…but that’s the most important time to express your feelings. i feel like i am loneliest person in the whole universe no one loves me no one cares about me……. Why that makes me feel better, I don’t know…I guess it’s because it helps me see that we’re all suffering, we all go through bouts of loneliness and meaninglessness…even people who lived more than 2,000 years felt the lostness and unhappiness we feel. My only consolation is my Faith and knowing that God watches over me. I hope you found it helpful to write about what it feels like when it feels like nobody cares. In fact, you are very useful. I hope to find happiness without being dependent to a partner. I need to feel heard but no one listens. I find it difficult to make friends and when I do we end up parting,am always having to apologize in those friendships.Please i need help and I want to start all over again..I don’t even know the cause of this.I want to be strong like other people out there having the ability to choose my own friends. Debt helping people…close to 17,000. But I know there are other options. I met my “now” husband the first week. I feel rejected. You have to start caring for yourself first. Don’t give up, keep fighting. It’s good to see that I’m not the only one that feels alone and unwanted, I am not sure on what to do, keep trying or just leave everyone alone …. Have to get out or it won’t stop. I felt unwanted today, I worked 9:30 an to 4 pm at a kroger’s that I’ve been working at for 9 years. I am not important to anyone. How do you feel, what do you think? Sorry to burst your bubble. I am still going throw saddness.Miss my animals done rescue for 20 years. This sounds like one big pity-party, but frankly, I don’t care enough about myself to have any pity. I count how often every blog post I write is viewed. I suppose that You have already answered Yourself what person is making You feel the most empty and who’s appreciation You’re lacking the most. Your mom loves you so much, and you love her too. Or maybe arrange to meet up at the shops together, have a coffee and a wander round the shops. I know my mom is only trying to help me understand how to do something correctly, but I just start to cry and feel sand and angry, and I don’t know why.my mom says things in a different way which sounds mean, and she doesn’t understand that. In which case, that person will literally be surrounded by people who do not care about that person. It could also help you open up the conversation for you to tell them how much you love spending time together and would like to do it more often. What I pray most for is these evil abusers against her or never want to prevent it. I realize I need to let go, but all I want to do is give up. Mum’s are still people, can you find a class or group in the new year to join? I find that talking to god on the beach or in nature not only brings me closer to him but I begin to feel a sense of piece.. Is this real or made up? Why the hell are we on this earth? I just want to close my eyes and not wake up again. And I’ve never been more sober but now I moved away from all my friends and family and I don’t have the means to visit them. Remember these wise words a preacher once told me … this too shall pass. Oh boy, someone new to manipulate into needing me and loving me. Everyone knows about their physical well-being and physical needs, but that’s not all there is. This happened 20 years ago but the pain from their denial is worse than I could have imagined. I have found there are always 3 things you can do about any situation. Good on you for keeping busy, that helps us to forget our sadness for a little time and i think, if you have time find and do things that you have interest in, read good books, go out in nature, take time out for you…you deserve it much love to you, i also feel alone we always move and i just moved to a new city and i had friends but i was ditched and now am alone and i feel so sad and my friend from back home doest get me at all i fear sometimes that nobody gets or cares for me am tired of feeling unwanted and hated i really am what wrong with me. To top it off I know he didn’t forget because we got married on my birthday 10 yrs ago So it’s our anniversary too and he wanted his present (a gun) . I think the best thing to do about your grandson is to keep in good communication without being too over the top. And I guess I have. I don’t know what country you are in but there will be something similar. When they sepeested ua I just told them like I just wrote. Get help. They look happy and I don’t think they are like me, who cries on her bed in her dark bedroom. I’m in UK. I assume there is something I’m still supposed to accomplish. 4 Questions to Ask When You Feel Unloved and Unwanted: In Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life, Byron Katie also teaches the “turnarounds”, which are powerful. I have dreams I’m interacting and laughing with people who celebrate me and want me around, and I want them around. I let them know that if they can’t take my needs into consideration, then I would pull back and basically ignore them. She said I really don’t have a clue about how much I matter to people. Sometimes, it's easy to feel that nobody cares about you. It will come in time and eventually those bad moments will fade. What makes you feel better when you feel low, down, and depressed? I am already low. It’s the unfinished piano lessons you had as a kid. I feel so lonely and afraid. I found out he was having an affair. Hello, I’m a 31 year old male and I’m here because I feel God reached out to me through a dream. I feel like no one cares about me, no one values me. Tip 2. The point here is that I care about what happens to other human beings (and so should any of you) because I know that life throws us curve balls on occasion. Got to give up this self-pity and realize the world’s not against me just because things don’t always go my way. I KNOW that I am a special child of God. God loves and only he is able to make us content. I am currently doing research about how to make the characters in my first book pop off the page, and I came across She Blossoms earlier. God bless you and help you. I spoke with several there during two weeks including some government agents described to stop abuse. Even the most popular and famous people have doubts about whether or not people close to them actually care. Hot New. I just don’t know where to turn. I feel like I wasted my life. I understand that, Derek. I feel the same way to u have no friends by best friend tied my don does not bother with me my mother only complains about her stuff my sister only complains about her stuff my echusbad has new girlfriend u am I’ll and can not do alot and no one ever asks me how I am do ing they just want me to do things for them I wish I would just no wake up all the people that cared about me are gone. Be happy. I have no one. I understand hlw you feel, It’s New Year’s Eve…are you spending it alone? I have feel completely invisible. I’m sorry but sometimes that’s just the truth. I’m going out for a walk and will prob find a cafe or somewhere to stop. I totally understand what you mean. Your Husband and my Wife did what they did to gain an upper hand in the divorce, & it worked out to their benefit!! She is 23 and I wish she would treat me differently but what can I do? My parents got divorced when i was 6. Two years ago I got a job, not the best but I believe when I get something that earns a living I do my best at it. God will help me through. I wish someone would hug me and tell me that everything will be OK. I’m tired and sometimes I think about suicide but my husband says I’m just bragging and making a big fuss from nothing. I feel like I’ve dedicated my life to God, and now I’m empty, broken and alone. I wish I had the right words to comfort you and make you feel better! A “Lullaby Journey Through Scripture” – it’s just beautiful. Don’t focus on people who hurt you and don’t care. I have some good days and some bad. Why because you have given. Join classes, go for walks, do whatever you enjoy. I believe that we are in need of metamorphosis and it hurts. leaving me completely alone . 9 thousand in debt caring for him. By far the best and most honest comment. Left friends. They are either alone like me or stuck with not so nice people). I don’t want this to continue into 2018, this life without connection hasn’t been worth living. I KNOW the gifts he gave me benefit many every day, in a way that lasts a lifetime for them. I have no one that I genuinely connect with and I try to connect with God but I feel like I can’t bc of my past and like I’m filthy and unworthy and I know that I am worthy and loved but I’m afraid of being reject by God so I reject myself. Nevertheless something good is going to come out of all of this, Hello Alice, i really do empthasize with all of what you have mentioned, you seem like a very intelligent being and you are not unusual for feeling the way you do about life in general. He never came back !! Thats where I want to be. I feel you. When she can get around what is trying to block her communication with me, it is always her love and appreciation wanting to return, but neither of us have the power and money to succeed. Due to experiences, I came into “full cognition” or awareness of my surroundings and forming memories I still carry from the age of 3; with flashes before that. But he won’t want to go back…not ever. I also can’t keep waiting for my family to care. But who cares for me? God doesn't care about me. ” Finally a response that he ran into an old girlfriend and her kids. I am 55 and have tried so hard since I was a four year old girl who never had any real love. If you ever want to reach out, feel free. Ordinary people chatting to ordinary people about how they are feeling. Get yourself a nice shirt, socks, tie. My attempts to connect with anyone else has been shattered. , i have 2 kids , I gave up on that relationship because my kids Father was cheating a lot on me , I felt maybe he never loved me. My mother always did the best should could for my brother and myself!! People only bring you down if you let them.Yes i miss my husband being here with me. Here’s what a reader said on a recent She Blossoms blog post: #mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; } He was paid by the estate a monthly income, so more or less he was considered retired at the age of 45, I was 38. I go to the gym but its hard. Plus, you are setting a good example for your daughter, and that makes all the difference in the world too.God bless you! The attempts my friends or husband has made to connect with me just doesn’t snap me out of it. I have 6 brothers and sisters with me being the middle child. I read your post and thank you for sharing. I don’t have that much friends like I use because they rejected me because I went to back to my ex. You know, the Bible just doesn’t help every single time. She move on remarried and got even more problems. You won’t always feel like no one cares about you…and you will start to feel the life, light, and joy of being alive again! I have to stop myself from spiraling. I feel alone on my days off even though I look forward to them. It’s somehow even a struggle to write even now. you never know whats going to happen the next day. You’re not hiding behind walls. I went through a bad breakup exactly six months ago and I thought I’d never get over it! Hi Cici, i am really sad and sorry for what you have had to deal with in your life and i think those previous relationships/lack of have really affected the way you feel now. Everytime i have to suffer this pain. How do you feel when you believe that? Our lives have been very similar. I have reached the point of hating life before, but I always held on to the hope that things will improve. There are people who will read my message and ignore me without bothering to type out a reply. They don’t care about you or don’t like you as a person, then you have no reason to like or care about them back. But I’m here just to say you are No loser!! I go without worrying about losing weight or getting in great shape. 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