I have something of a business relationship with someone. In the synastry between my husband and myself, my Mars and Saturn lands in his 12th house. With your partner's Venus in your 12th house, you are drawn to and captivated by your significant other. Either come correct or go away. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" Especially natal charts and composite charts. be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. . Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. it doesn't work or they don't like me? I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. It may not display this or other websites correctly. It may not display this or other websites correctly. He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. This person also has natal Neptune in their 7th house and MY Neptune falls in their 7th house. This is why this house also holds our hidden enemies. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. On the second day of this happening, he told me that it was weird because he was going through the same thing because of a blood sugar problem where his blood sugar was going too low. He said, he hadn't and he just hoped we could be good friends when he returned. Trish how did you get over it!?! like a Gemini (no offense meant) they are both good and evil, but THEIR Evil Twin often does the acting out. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. Lol and last night I noticed his Saturn/Pluto conjunct opposes my moon too. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! I really like the Leo energy. You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. You need some fire. Hi Sharmeen, I am very sorry, unfortunately 12th house connections can sometimes reflect deceptions, it is the house of hidden things, secrets etc.. How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry?? I love him so much, I dont even know what to do with myself. Thinking this would help. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? I guess the best way I can describe it is as if it's partially a dream. Glad that its OVER!! He is not letting me go, he comes into my dreams, only to message me next day.The whole story is like a novel really, with me running after him through half of the world, and yet he never asked anything more of me than comfort. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. All we can do is hope for something good in the future! This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. Hi thank you for visiting! you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. I recent discover my crush has his Mars in my 12th conjunct my Ascendant. He is the same, because even if there is nothing that ties us, in any way, we would still feel like inclined to keep communicating. You are probably this person's "type.". He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). Neptune idealizes, and makes everything much more beautiful it rules feelings of ecstacy, perfection and the feelings of soulmates but he's a tricky fella once we fall from the high, it's hard to get over.It's not usually til much later we want to slap ourselves when the Neptune fog clears and reality set's in. . His Venus is trine my Mars. Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. I have to admit that I, with my usual 3/Sag and 3/Leo stelliums went after HIM because I was so sure he was my soul mate. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. Its been a year since we last saw each other and 5 months since we last spoke. Lot's of non-verbal communicating. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. This is especially true with the Moon here but other planets as well. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! Ill blink and its 1am. One who never had to deal with neptune before would have it very difficult to submerge themselves past the toes dipping. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. However, I have a group of planets that fall my husbands twelfth house and hes had no complaint with it. In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. I forgot to say my venus is in his first house and when we met it was like that scene from twilight where Edward walks into the cafeteria in slow motion, the wind was blowing (indoors!) Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! His Venus squares my Vertex. I have my Venus in my would-be partners 12th House conjunct his Moon along with my Sun on the cusp of his 12th, his Sun is partially in my 12th House, his Neptune is in my 5th House conjunct my Mercury, and my Moon is in his 4th House conjunct his Mercury, Mars, and Jupiter. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Thanks for being so detailed. Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. No he is the Venus in Cancer. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. My Mars,North node and Pluto(in my DC) conjunct his Uranus and Saturn in the 1st house. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. I understand this. Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. Hi,this is illuminating reading for me :)Recently one man has very special influence on me and his Sun, Mars, Moon and Mercury (although Mercury is very close to my Asc) fall in my 12th house.He just gets me like no one does, or ever did. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. This house offers the opportunity to discover these things so we can let them go and live a life with less baggage and more happiness. From the start. The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. It's such a surreal feeling. Thanks for sharing your experience:) Very psychic this 12th house Synastry, you really feel connected regardless if you are together or not it's like you exist on another plane 0: Very interesting article! SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES. You will not regret it. His Venus and Jupiter fall in my 9th house. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. Please also note that having Venus in the 12th means very little without a lot of context. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. has Sun conjunct Saturn, they natrually have a hard time showing their affections and are very fatherly, 12th house gives you a very spiritual feeling almost like they could be your soulmate, it can be pretty intense ad consuming so if your not very spiritual/aware of yourself or in a good place in life, you might have a hard time feeling this energy or wanting to accept it, its different, its not so much lustful, its just friggin beautiful, you wanna make love to that person and cuddle them, i also have an empty 12th housei could love this energy so much possibly because aqua venuses that land there most of time trine my moon.i feel like if someones planets fall in 12th AND also aspect sun/moon/asc, youll be able to accept and recieve this awesome energy more. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. Maybe my cancer north node and his venus in cancer helps things. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. The sign over the 12th house also is a big signifier. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. It is a hard process . Thank you for any input/comments. SYNASTRY: NORTH AND SOUTH NODE CONNECTIONS. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. Venus is the Roman counterpart to the Greek goddess, Aphrodite, and she is the female counterpart of the Roman god of war and conquest, Mars, who is also the namesake of one of the big eight planets in astrology. My own Dad was a Sun/Gemini native who made TWIN SIGN siblings (he was a classic Gemini man with multiple marriages and households, lol!) The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. Lesson learned: let the men pick ME instead of the other way around. thus I didnt want to be like him. I know it sounds crazy. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 My Lib Sun and Jupiter falls in his 12th. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? But we fell in love, got divorced from our previous partners, came out at work, moved in together, got . It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. What do you think? Here are the examples i want to share with you. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. If a person is open to the supernatural, this would be a positive thing to see in an overlay. People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. There will defo be issues and concerns regarding faithlessness, as Gemini males are often butterflies flitting from flower to flower chasing that honey, lol!!! Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. I've been rather busy these days but am always happy to answer questions:) The 12th house is about as mysterious and the afterlife! Mars is a aggressive action oriented planet and again as always it would depend on the individual who is activating your 12th house. In a synastry chart, this is indicative of strong affection and attraction. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. I didnt want to talk about it untill he would be back home. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap!